Both LSPE and
www.allears.net were extremely valuable when I planned my first visit. That site had menus which is invaluable IMHO.
Best advice is to be SELFISH and see what YOU want. See EVERYTHING! (Except The Monsters Inc. Laugh Factory).
When you start thinking about never setting foot in Disneyland after the magic of WDW, that's when you go see their Tiki Room.