I guess the disconnect here is in "I think he's gay therefore it is ok to judge him for being gay and anti-gay."
To me (and presumably to others) whether you think he's gay has little to do with he actually is gay and conforming to a stereotype is not evidence.
But whatever, it is enlightening to learn that it is ok to just take as fact that a swishy man (whatever that may mean to the individual observer) is gay and then treat him accordingly.
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