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		 Oh, RStar.  I am sorry this is happening to your family. 
 
Keep this as simple and zen as you can.   
 
If T can't make the actual wedding, have a second, smaller celebration when she is able to enjoy it.    
 
Breathe.  It's going to be okay.  In a few years, it's going to make a great family story.   
 
Oh, boy.  My thoughts are with you on this big day.  Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family. 
 
I'm hoping T can enjoy a big slice of wedding cake very soon. 
 
Your pal, 
Helen 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
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