RStar, whatever happens, she needs to know that the BEST possible wedding gift she could give would be to get better. She may have to watch via Skype, but the kids could include her by putting some pretty flowers on her chair (not a rose, that symbolizes someone who has passed) and to make reference to her during the ceremony. Just let her know that the greatest gift would be to get better, and to be there for all the future anniversary's, births, and all those life events that really, in the long run, are so much more important.
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