Well, then was anyone bothered by Merida being a brat and kinda mean and her arc being simply to grow up a little? I know that's a standard arc for a teen lead ... but I hate that kind of thing, because it requires your lead to be a brat and mean, and I don't find that particularly likable in a character.
So I guess that's rather in line for fairytale type stories. But isn't anyone more upset about the fairy tale heroine being just as STUPID as every other fairy tale heroine? Perhaps more upset by that than how glad that she's too young or stubborn or lesbian to want to be married off??