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At this point in my life, if it were my dad, I'd want to know who the bio dad was, but only (at first) for health reasons. Any further relationship with him would be determined by him. I don't think, for me, it would break up my family. My parents might have issues, but I wouldn't love them any less than I do now.
I think the person who raises the child has just as much, if not more, importance in the child's life, not just the one who gave them life. The hard part of being a parent isn't becoming one, it's the being one that kills you.
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