Next can we talk about who is right on abortion and religion?
my opinion is:
If one is ok and comfortable in their own skin, while not harming others in the process, then live and let live. (please don't start a debate of symantics on the above mentioned topics) I don't always agree with the way people live, and somtimes it frustrates me cause they don't think the way I do. Then again, I dont have to live in heir skin. (*grabs chainsaw* ..hee hee ...YET

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If it works for you, great. if it doesn't, change. but be true to yourself.