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Originally Posted by Ghoulish Delight
Whatever it is, if there's a problem in a relationship but you feel like you're not "supposed" to talk about it, that ain't good.
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I completely agree. Talking out issues is key to any relationship, marital or otherwise. However, acting on those issues, is quite a different thing. Married does not bean you are dead, attractions happen, but, personally, I am not naive enough to think that I could act on those attractions without some sort of damage to my marriage. It happens. I can guarantee that. I've experienced it. And, 99% of the outcomes are not good ones. I was lucky - after many years of pain and hurt. So, it doesn't make sense to me at all. My marriage comes first. Period.