If I really had to choose, I'd go with honesty. To know that the person you are with is trustworthy is worth more than anything. Even if that honesty was painful (such as "Yes, your ass does look big in those pants", or "I don't love you anymore") at least you are not living a lie. Honesty is a big issue with me- I equate it with trust, and there are so few people that I really trust in this world.
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