What everyone has said above is very true. You don't know until you try, and I think you can be up front about the work comfort/discomfort thing early on without it being too bad. What's bad is when the relationship is way down the road and you start talking about comfort and discomfort. Coming from someone who usually addresses these sorts of issues late in the game, it's 10 times worse to do it when things are already uncomfortable.
Keep things light. If it's right, it's right, and follow the signs your heart and mind tell you. Listening to them both rarely steers someone wrong.
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