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First, thanks everyone for your kind thoughts. They mean so much to Matthew and I right now.
The situation is a bit complex. The mother doesn't like us. She's only met me once for about 5 minutes after he moved in. The conversation basically went "Why are you helping him. He is a loser." She then proceeded to tell him that she wasn't going to allow her daughter to see him over here because it was an unsafe environment. He called the cops because he had visitation rights and was told that the mother didn't want the daughter here because we are gay. The police came over and walked around. He told the mother that we seemed like good people and the place was clean and safe. The mother then reluctantly allowed her to come over here. I understand that any mother would be apprehensive towards letting her daughter stay at a place with two strangers though and tried to not let the "gay" comment get me too upset. Anyway, I've never had another opportunity to talk to the mother and she doesn't know anything about either of us. Therefore, it's a bit of an awkward phone call to make. She may take it well or she may start screaming. Don't really know. That's why we thought it might be a good idea to wait a day or two. She may even show up over here.
Really, we just want to let them know that we are available to them with any questions that they might have. We also want to reassure the daughter that she is always welcome to come by and talk if she would like.
As far as his belongings, the coroner told me that there is an investigation because of the fact that it is an "apparent" suicide. We were told to restrict access to his belongings and not handle them until we were contacted. We decided the best thing to do was just close his door until we hear otherwise.
Again, thanks so much for thinking of us. It's been a tough day.
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