Oh, anger is one of the phases of grieving. My dad was a suicide (I hate "committed" suicide- one commits crimes and suicide is many things, including in my opinion, stupid, but not a crime per se) and I was furious. Sad and hurting as well, but furious was one of the phases, absolutely.
I'm sorry you have to go through this. I like the suggestion of writing to the daughter. Hopefully her mother can remember good things about him, eventually.
Hang in there. Talk to us when you need to. We're here.
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Why cycling? Anything [sport] that had to do with a ball, I wasn't very good at.
-Lance Armstrong
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