2nd grade is not the time to be thinking about your parents dying. How morbid. I mean, I know it's hard to drive a point home for little kids, but doing it with fear? That's just so wrong.
It sounds like time for a family meeting where the two of you sit your child down and say, 'Now, we're going to talk about responsible drinking which adults do and kids shouldn't do until their 21.' Or something like that.
