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Originally Posted by Alex Stroup
And another too many of us feel that just because we have judged someone and decided we don't want to interact with them that it is important that this person be told that they've been judged and found lacking.
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Well, it may become self-evident when I've decided that a person's actions are "too stupid or their resulting behaviour too obnoxious" in my judgement for me to want to be around them, but I usually will try not to say something overtly - unless a particular situation calls for it.
I agree with what you said about behaviour completely. Everyone lives different types of lifestyles. There are some I agree with and other I do not. I've usually base my negative experience on my own personal experience and not one of a "higher morality". But, usually, it just gets down to people acting like idiots and i judge that I don't want to be around them.
So, judging IS important for me and my sanity. I just don't keep people around me that I judge to be "too stupid". Granted, deeming someone "too stupid" is a pretty indulgent determination, but....that's all I've got to go on.