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Alex nailed it with his comment about society judging people's private lives instead of their public lives. By all means judge me by my contribution, or lack thereof, to society. But stay the hell out of my bedroom (unless you've been invited).
My anger stemmed from Crystal's pain -- I'm simple, and overly protective, that way. She's hurt because a so-called friend decided to focus on the one detail that is none of her business while ignoring all the wonderful things that make Crystal, well, Crystal. And the friend telling Crystal that our children will no longer be socializing with her children because of Crystal's sexual orientation was the cherry on a very bitter sundae.
But, my swanky friends, venting here was just what the doctor ordered, Praise Allah. My anger has been replaced with sadness. And the sadness is starting to fade. As Kevin said, mayhap this person is not the kind of friend Crystal needs.
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