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I think we need to define judgement. Myself, I judge people all the time, "what an idiot" I might exclaim as someone cuts me off. But I rarely call people "bad" or "evil" - then again as a moral relativist, I really don't believe in those things.

Going back to the OP - I think you just have to aknowledge the fact that in this big world there will be people who don't like you for a variety of reasons, sometimes with grounds, often time without. In the end, I believe we hang with the people we want to be with and who want to be with you. Sometimes it's sad to see an old relationship sour, but it happens all the time and it's usually best to look forward than back