Sac & Crystal,
I totally can understand where you are coming from! For 6 or so years I lived in "sin" with my boyfriend (now ex). I can not tell you how many times I had family, "friends" or even coworkers tell me how wrong I was and how my relationship was wrong or that living in sin was wrong. The crazy thing is that many people that I knew that told me that were - Divorced, Cheating, Not Married, Never Been In a Long Term Relationship, and Married & Divorced 3 or more times. So let me just say that SCREW what other people think. If they feel they are so much better than you than maybe they aren't your friends.
What I just can't believe is why they have to hurt the kids. If your kids are having fun and enjoy each others company, I don't see how your sex life would effect the kids! That's just childish and immature. It just saddens me.
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