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Old 11-01-2005, 11:27 PM   #85
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And it's so interesting how we can all judge Crystal's ex-friend for the crime of having judged Crystal.
I've tried very hard not to judge the former friends. I don't have nearly enough information about the situation to do that. There may very well be information we don't have that would lead me to agree with this person.

I have no opinion on whether her judgment of Crystal is right or wrong (though if it is based purely on bisexuality, then I probably disagree with it but it is a judgment people have the right to make.

Based on the information provided, I would judge the friend's behavior to be rude, needlessly hurtful, and not the right (as I define it) way to handle such things. If she decided that something about Crystal was a problem then she should simply have moved on.

But again, for all I know, with the same information as the friend has, I may very well have come to the same judgment, though I would have behaved differently.
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