Hmm...I don't think that CP and ISM are trying to make personal judgements. I think they are saying that DL should try to please the most people possible. And yes, more people want to see thin bodies than fat ones.
I don't agree, as DL is not a movie or a play, it is a theme park. I am not 12 or 13, so I don't go to ogle cast members. I want someone who is friendly above all else and knows how to do their job well. Highest common denominator be damned. If a cast member were dirty, or smelled bad or something, then I would take issue. If I want hotness, I can find it in my own home.
As far as my real life friends finding me attractive or not? I guess I don't care whether they want to jump in bed with me or not. I certainly don't find everyone I care about attractive. I don't want them to find me repulsive either, but what's the big deal if someone on this board or in real life doesn't find fat attractive? I'm sure there are plenty of physical features of many posters on this board that wouldn't make me drool with lust. I'm willing to accept that they feel the same way about me.
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