And, if you all can carry on with the thought of the first statement erased from your minds and not influencing how the thread progresses, then that's a good thing. However, I wasn't seeing a universal acceptance of the appology. Therein lies my concern. The justifications that ensued just seemed to make matters worse for some. That's why I suggested that Jen leave the appology there and walk away.
Sometimes it's not the fu<kups that get you in trouble but the justifications that follow.
And, just to make this part clear, this is not about some personal issue I have with Jen. I would've acted the same way with anyone. But, it's convenient to blame it on personal issues and discount my suggestions.
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