Wow- usually when I hear about this question the adoptive family is unsupportive - it's great that your dad will help you! 
Talk to them on the phone, go meet them unless something screams otherwise. Most of us are lucky to have one family that loves us- you could wind up with two loving families!
Timing might be tricky- depends how you feel right now. If you're up to it, I say do it!
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Why cycling? Anything [sport] that had to do with a ball, I wasn't very good at.
-Lance Armstrong
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