I'm big on "just because you're part of my life doesn't mean you're part of all my life" and have never succumbed to pressure to invite people to things where I didn't want them. And conversely never really get upset if I'm not invited to something.
If they came begging I'd tell them no, just to teach them the lesson. Unless it really was an oversight and then I'd still tell them no because they won't learn otherwise.
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