The pajama game is the far more romantic one to play.
And even though Valentine's Day may be a con for choclatiers and Hallmark and florists, you are a non-romantic stick-in-the-mud if you don't commemorate your romance with something on that day. It doesn't have to be a material gift, but a touch of romance is called for on February 14.
If you want to prove that you're beyond such con work and that you are a true, non-manufactured romantic - then by all means, use little love touches of gifts and flowers and candies and foot rubs and candlelight dinners and strolls on the beach and unselfish sex throughout the year. But ignore Valentine's Day at your peril.
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