I am not particularly religious lately but was at times.
But seeing as how you should have a relationship with god first and not the church It would seem to me that although it's the hardest thing to pray for perhaps something for yourself...
Very hard to do but perhaps you might
Pray for your own inner peace in your own way disregarding all else.
Then don't forget to listen for an answer...
If honestly looking for answers whether it comes from yourself or God. Believe an answer will be waiting for you. Just don't forget to listen for the answer...
I deflated my ego and asked.
I found the answer I think at least for me and it came in a childs eyes.
(At disneyland no less)
I set a goal to have kids before I am 35.
Good luck.
