[Ponine]

I'm late into this thread, and not going to read it all, sorry guys.
But my answer is yes, I would forgive.

As a school bus driver many mooms ago, I drove a little boy about seven or eight to schhol every day.
His father had been angry with his mom, and tried to shoot both of them. The bullet had gone through the car door, and into the boys spine.
he was also confined to a chair.

Greatest attitude, wonderful child. What's done is done. Move on, find a way to live. My one cent.