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Originally Posted by Gemini Cricket
Yes, I guess that all depends on what you want a hunk for. If I'm dreaming about a shag, it's all about the shag. Heck, we all have friends to talk to...  |
Oh, no, baby. You've got it all wrong. For me, the shag is also about the words and the ideas, not just the visual. Nothing dampens the drawbridge like someone saying "protuberant" or "egregious." Or any other interesting word. And not even in a sexual context. Intelligent coversation makes me want to boink.
Case in point, one of our hottest nights followed an extremely stimulating coversation about the downfall and regrettable loss of the studio system. After our brains boiling into each other's for a half hour of hashing out our ideas of why the industry is the way it is today, and how the old system can improve us as writers on a personal level, we were hotter for each other than we'd ever been. (And we're pretty hot for each other.)
Seeing porn is so-so, but reading erotica is swell.
Watching naked men dance is meh, but watching a play that gets my brain working, and then talking about it with my partner? Boinkage, baby. Boinkage abounds.
Perhaps this has something to do with the visual v. verbal turn-on that is supposedly gender-specific. I also think it's from my personal experience that the smarter the lover, the better and more interesting the sex.