I'm not voting either way. Sure, I'd prefer a weekend night because it's easier for me to get from SouthCounty to LA.
However, this party is not about me. It is all about you and Tom and what you guys want. Heck, if you wanted to have it on a Tuesday at 3pm I'd try to take the day off work and be there.
Who knows, the date you pick may not work out for some people. You can't please everyone, so screw them and throw whatever party you want whenever you want.
Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of life and love. And it makes me sad to see that one of my friends feels like her friends would have been bored with her wedding because it wasn't swanky enough.
