[RStar]

I know how easy it is to blaim yourself. But everyone here is right. Unless you went down there and missplaced that paperwork, it can't be your fault. And if your brother makes the choice to do something, that's not your fault as well. I know you are going through a lot of emotions, and we only see the tip of the iceberg here.

But please, take care of yourself, then take care of you brother. I will keep the two of you in my prayers. They can do wonders these days with muscle reconstruction!

The best of luck and hugs to you!

~Bob