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					Originally Posted by Alex Stroup
					
				 
				Oh come on. He said another boy was fit. There is a difference between that and commenting on a girls' boobs. 
			
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 Not if fit boys is what you're into and are hoping the other kid is, too.
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				But then we live in a society where any adult male that takes an interest in children is viewed as a likely criminal. 
			
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 Well, there's interest and then there's icky and, like obscenity, we know it when we see it.  But you're right, it is sad to always have that stuff in the air.  I coach a kid's soccer team, and one of the key pieces of advice at the orientation was never be alone with someone else's kid without another adult present.
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				But I do argue that if you put those emails in a pile of 100 emails from similar relationships where there is no sexual interest involved . . . 
			
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 Does not compute.
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				And in the face of that request, with arguably innocuous but misinterpreted emails, would you destroy a man's career? Or would you just say "stop emailing the kid?" 
			
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 This isn't some kid with undeveloped impulse control who never learned appropriate boundaries.  Like all the scandalous priests, he destroyed his own career.