The Gay Thread

[SzczerbiakManiac]

I am not a Democrat.

I found this amusing:
Dear Democrats: We need to talk
—The Gays

Dear Democrats,

We need to talk.

This may be a hard letter to read, but I need to figure out if this relationship is still healthy for me.

For the longest time, I thought we had something special. Remember how much fun we used to have back when we were young, and control of the Congress and the presidency was just a crazy dream? You always used to ask me for help, and you knew I'd never turn you down.

You were so adorable when we were courting. Sure, you never really understood me, but I liked that you seemed to try. The White House cocktail parties were totally fun, and that Easter Egg Roll is something I'll always cherish. Or remember the time you let me march in the Inaugural parade! Other than that whole Rick Warren thing, I really thought we had a connection.

I know you kept telling me that you weren't ready for marriage, but I was willing to wait since you had promised so much else in the meantime.

But now, I've kind of had it. I'm just not getting what I need out of this relationship. You rarely call me anymore, and when you do it's to ask for money. We talked about joining the military together—but now it seems like you are flaking on that commitment. You promised to protect me from the homophobes at work, but you don't seem to be in a hurry to actually do it. And—that Department of Justice brief thing was just cruel. I'll never understand why you did that.

It almost seems like you're embarrassed by me in public. I know not everyone in your family approves of us, but before you got your new job, it seemed like you didn't care what they thought and were always ready to fight for me. Now, it's like you're a different person.

Please don't take this the wrong way. I still think we have a future. I want us to have a future. But I need this relationship to be healthy for both of us. And I just can't get excited anymore by your empty promises and half-gestures.

I need you to take a real step. You know what I'm talking about—the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and repealing Don't Ask Don't Tell.

I still worry every day that I can be fired in 28 states just because I'm gay. And my friend who is transgender can be fired in 38 states. I know you can do it. You've helped protect people from employment discrimination on the basis of race, sex, religion, disability and many other characteristics. Each time me and my friend have been left behind. It's our turn. ENDA's time has come.

It's our turn to be welcomed into the military as well. I want to serve my country openly and proudly. I was so excited when you promised you would repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell this year after 17 long years of putting up with it.

Now, I can't even get you to talk about DADT.

You promised to change. I know that you can. But why should I stand by your side when you can't keep your promises to me?

I get that you're scared. But I'm scared too -- scared of losing you. You need to prove to me that you really care. You need to finally give me the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and repeal Don't Ask Don't Tell, like you promised.

I have enough disappointments in my life. I need you to not be one of them.

Love,
The Gays

[innerSpaceman]

Tomorrow, Saturday, May 22 - is California's First Official HARVEY MILK Day.


Yes, it's now a legal holiday in California, in honor of the famed, slain civil rights leader.





So, if you'd like to join in the inaugural celebration, come on out to Olvera Street* for a wonderful Coming Out Party. Completely in the spirit of Harvey Milk, we'd like everyone to Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are.

Special Guests, a Robust Rally, Everyone Comes Out, and a march to the nearby Federal Building. What could be more Harvey Milkery??





The actual location is Father Serra Park, between Olvera Street and Union Station.

[Alex]

Congratulations and in the spirit of equality gays so certainly deserve I will treat this day as I do all days in honor of specific individuals.

[Snowflake]

Wish I were in LA for this holiday, SF's plan are surprisingly lame.

[innerSpaceman]

Eh, events in L.A. were toned down as well. I got involved with this effort because no one else was planning anything (and mostly got un-involved when even the thrown-together plans got too dry).


If I hadn't been quasi-involved with the early states of the effort, I would never have heard of it. So I hope some people have, and show up.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

In the OC, there's an AIDS Walk on Saturday (worthy cause, but not exciting) and a Milk-style Canvass on Sunday. I do dig the idea of canvassing on Milk day in hostile territory, same way he did. It's what Dustin Lance Black, screenwriter on Milk, advocates, so I'm sure at least a few people will be out there knocking on American flag-laden doorways.

As much as I'd like to participate, I'm not sure if a straight person is the right one to do the knocking - the whole point is to show them that gay people are normal human beings.

We're also rather busy this weekend. Totally didn't know it was Milk day.

[innerSpaceman]

There's a hostile-territory canvass in L.A., too - with all those people coming to the rally afterwards. Should be very Milkian.

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by Cadaverous Pallor

In the OC, there's an AIDS Walk on Saturday...

Saturday is a busy day: the Orange County Spring Regional Games for Special Olympics is also that day. That's where I will be.

[SzczerbiakManiac]

I love Glee!

[innerSpaceman]

I've never seen it. And I'm in no rush to see Sex and the City 2.


Am I even still gay?