Wear your deceased loved one as jewelry

[Alex]

It doesn't strike me as any odder than putting them in a felt lined box, burying them and putting a plaque above it.

I personally wouldn't do either the jewelry or the burial.

Lani has instructions to do whatever makes her feel best but that it is fine with me, should nobody show interest in a use for my body, to just leave me out in the street for consumption by wild bears (likely to take quite a while, though, in the Bay Area suburbs; I wonder if turkeys scavenge carrion).