It's not offered on a silver platter.  Reportedly this guy thinks I'm cute ... but I could cherry pick plenty of photographs that would fool people into thinking so. 
 
 
 
It doesn't matter.  I want a relationship, not just hot sex (though the relationship must enable plenty of hot sex).  If I were to meet someone and spark a mutual thing, only to then find out they were 19 years younger ... that would be 
one thing.  But I will not purposefully date someone whom I know in advance is precisely zapppop's age difference from me.