Question for gay men

[blueerica]

I think actual attractions to persons, rather than body parts, lies more in the personality, at least for a majority of women. Looks certainly play a part, and throughout our lives we memorize our own versions of what a comedian looks like, what a family guy looks like, what a nerdy girl looks like, who's bookish... who's an a$$hole... and that becomes a part of the internal conversation that goes on when first appraising someone.

I can honestly say that J is the comedian, who has just enough a$$hole to keep me interested, but is the kind of guy who likes dogs and cats. Had I looked at him more closely the first time, I might have saw that, but I just saw the comedian. And that was good enough for me.

Now, back to boobies...? I like breasts...