I hereby claim this moment for self pity

[Eliza Hodgkins 1812]

I am sorry you're going through this. I, too, think you should fight for the boss' house. I realize he's a nice guy but this is a big mistake on his part. The pastor should be made fully aware of your situation - the pregnancy, especially - and maybe he'll be the one to offer to go to a hotel. After all, it's just him, and you have a family. And a baby on the way! Certainly a pastor would give way to a pregnant lady!