Kid Question, Opinions Requested

[SusieP.]

Originally Posted by Tref

The party would have been a major success, with a large buffet, kiddie pool, games and prizes and cake, except that none of the above items were actually included. When the children arrived they were escorted to a small room with folding chairs and made to watch a video on purchasing prime California real estate. Afterward, they were served a cold spaghetti dinner.

Lemony Snicket, is that you????

As a teacher-type person and a mom, I think you have to let them deal with it for now. As long as nobody is being bodily harmed, they will figure it out, and will probably be best buddies again by the weekend.

This age is really tricky. The school where I worked was 4th-6th grade. This is when they start learning how to manipulate power over others to give themselves more status, and they start getting outright mean- the boys, but especially the girls. Remind your son that being nice is more important than being cool, hard as that is to understand, and that those nice friends are the ones he'll want to keep. You don't have to like everyone, but you do have to be nice to people. (Especially the mean ones, 'cause they HATE that! )