Kinsey and Bisexuality

alphabassettgrrl · 01-16-2005, 05:34 PM

Kinsey did some fascinating stuff. According to his theory, though, he'd class me as straight, when I am most assuredly not. Just lately haven't had anything going on with chickies. Maybe I'm just a bit gunshy - DP, you know who was most recently in my life. :: shudder::

Not a happy thing. She acted like I was the greatest thing and then out of the blue I because a horrible bug that needed to either crawl back under a rock or be squished. Yeah, thanks. I know it's her problem not mine but it's still unpleasant.

I have retreated from the gay community. Part of it is lack of energy. Part is I'm tired of getting nasty looks when they see my wedding rings. Part is I'm feeling unattractive- who'd possibly want me? Part is that I can't really bring her back to my home, and sex in the back seat just seems so... something. I don't know, but I just really don't want to go there. So I don't have much to offer at this point. So I have pulled back.

Honestly, behavior is only one factor. Sure, it's more visible than feelings or fantasies, but it certainly doesn't tell the whole story.

**hugs**
-kerry, a 4.5

01-16-2005, 05:34 PM	#11
alphabassettgrrl Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 4,978	Kinsey Kinsey did some fascinating stuff. According to his theory, though, he'd class me as straight, when I am most assuredly not. Just lately haven't had anything going on with chickies. Maybe I'm just a bit gunshy - DP, you know who was most recently in my life. :: shudder:: Not a happy thing. She acted like I was the greatest thing and then out of the blue I because a horrible bug that needed to either crawl back under a rock or be squished. Yeah, thanks. I know it's her problem not mine but it's still unpleasant. I have retreated from the gay community. Part of it is lack of energy. Part is I'm tired of getting nasty looks when they see my wedding rings. Part is I'm feeling unattractive- who'd possibly want me? Part is that I can't really bring her back to my home, and sex in the back seat just seems so... something. I don't know, but I just really don't want to go there. So I don't have much to offer at this point. So I have pulled back. Honestly, behavior is only one factor. Sure, it's more visible than feelings or fantasies, but it certainly doesn't tell the whole story. hugs -kerry, a 4.5
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