Whatever you do, don't take my finger!

[Nephythys]

some men consider, as Scrooge does, that it is mutilation. Some men HAVE had surgery done to "repair" the damage- yes

I totally feel that my sons can make the decision when and if they want to- there has never been a medical problem, concern, or anything else that would convince me I was wrong to do it this way. In fact, just like my brother, my oldest seems to appreciate it.