Jodie Foster Finally Comes Out!

[Ghoulish Delight]

Originally Posted by Gemini Cricket

I'm not saying "need". I'm saying it would be "nice" to have an assortment of high profile gay people out there who are saying 'Hey, look at me I'm out and life's okay. You can be a success and gay.' Instead of, 'Yeah, I know everyone's talking about my sexuality for 15 years and I'm going to pretend it's not there.'

See, it's the "instead" part that I have a problem with. Yes, it is always nice when someone comes out and is open, proud, and successful. But that has nothing to do with another person who makes the choice to remain private. By tacking that "instead" on, you're implicitly damning Foster as having done something wrong, as opposed to simply not doing something extra-good.