Jodie Foster Finally Comes Out!

[Kevy Baby]

Originally Posted by Gemini Cricket

I'm gay. But it's no one else's business that I'm a bottom.

Here is something I have always wondered.

In a basic straight coupling, there is, for the most part, no question about who does what. Tab A goes in Slot B.

But how is this established in a gay relationship? Is it discussed whom is a top and who is a bottom? Is it something that you just "know"? Is it common for a couple to trade these roles?

Sorry if I am being overly personal (and/or ignorant), I've just always been curious.