Disneyphile's mom

[Kevy Baby]

Sometimes, in a situation like this, friends (such as us) want to help, but don't what to do. As I have mentioned to a couple of people, at this point, there is not much we can do other than sending our collective positive healing energy to T & K. T is certainly going through a state of mourning and she and her family will handle the details (they probably already have most of it covered).

Thankfully, NA and Susan are available to be with them today. But I am sure they will be returning to the land of Dolores soon. If, in the meantime, they need anything, I am sure that T will reach out: I know them well enough to know that she wouldn't hesitate to ask for help.

As mentioned previously in this thread, where we will be able to do the most good is the time after they return from the services. The day to day life starts settling in and people move on. T will probably have times where she needs to cry on someone's shoulder, or maybe they just want to get out to forget about life for a while.

The outpouring of love by this groups is simply amazing. I think someone mentioned it earlier, but T's sister was blown away by the level of support that the LoT has given. You are a super bunch of people that I am proud to call my friends.