What advice would you give-

[Nephythys]

I want to be near the ocean. (meaning I can drive to it easily)
I want to be in the sunshine.
I want to be able to go to the park whenever I want.

We know it's expensive. That is why we plan to pay off all debts outside of the house before making the move.

R wants to work in the video game industry and can do so out there better than here and I can find a job in finance anywhere.