Hey Gerry, that's a word for that. It's called "bi"

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Some people feel they've chosen their sexuality.

Personally, I've moved on the Kinsey scale. It's possible I would move back, but at this stage, I doubt it. I've been a straight girl, then spent a few years at bi, and now I think I'm pretty solidly a 5. I'm one husband away from being gay.

It feels a little strange to say that since my last date with a girl was a couple of years ago, but that's ok. Attraction doesn't depend on behavior. A bi person who's dating someone is still bi.