What to wear for a wedding?

[Cadaverous Pallor]

I'm sure the bride would say "whatever you wear is fine" since they are laid-back people (and they'd know I wouldn't dress like a total slob).

I don't want to wear a little black dress. I feel it wouldn't be good for an afternoon wedding (even east coast). Besides, I like color.

After looking at these suggestions and thinking about having to shop for structured jacket or other accessories I'm thinking I want a more formal look.

Hmm, this really might be a good time to try out eShakti - thanks for the link, Morrigoon.