What to wear for a wedding?

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Ok....so I did more shopping and the more I wore that dress to try with jackets and wraps the less I liked the dress. The pic doesn't really show it, but the top just isn't made for someone with my bust and it is not flattering at all. I love the print but the shape really isn't for me.

Instead I ended up at Nordstrom Rack and found a more formal look that fit perfectly, flattered me in all the right places, was a good deal AND came with a sleeved shrug. Guess I should get a picture.

BTW, to everyone who thinks that because I'm skinny I can wear anything...my list has been shortened significantly by childbearing.