Relocation

[Strangler Lewis]

And, I would assume, an hour by plane to New Orleans.

[Scrooge McSam]

Originally Posted by Strangler Lewis

And, I would assume, an hour by plane to New Orleans.

... and then a further 2.5 hour drive to Vicksburg. Bonus!

[Cadaverous Pallor]

The best thing about Houston is you can get away from it.

[RStar]

I heard Galviston is a blast durring huricane season!

[Alex]

For the record when I said to avoid Houston. I have absolutely no problem with the city. I've enjoyed myself the two times I've been there.

But for someone not genetically optimized for the climate, that part of it is awful.

[Snowflake]

I'm sure the best part of being in Texas would be the proximity to some good BBQ. Beyond that, I can't possibly comment.

I hope that wherever you land, the locals may not know it yet, but their swank level will have increased by your being there and they had damn well better appreciate it.

[3894]

Originally Posted by €uroMeinke

what made it easier, what difficulties didn’t you expect. What was it like to build a new social network in your new location? Any thought or wisdom would be welcome.

What made it easier: joining what I couldn't beat. For example, the Wisconsin climate is a challenge to me who lived most of my first 30 years in the Bay Area. I try to get involved in outdoor wintery activities - Nordic skiing, ice skating, snow shoeing but always drawing the line at curling and any sport involving animal death and state licensing. Inside, I have growing potted spring bulbs. I also wear bright colors.

I think this idea can be applied to pretty much anything you hate about wherever you move. Join what you can't beat.

What I didn't expect: the food differences.

How to build a new social network: Tom and I are in the process of selling our place in rural Wisconsin and moving to Madison, a little over 100 miles away. It's just time for a change and time to be less isolated.

Tom is very social but he is not well. I am a good conversationalist but I am not much of a joiner. I am going to try to find congenial activities and see if that route works. I am excited for the new adventure and scared that I'm too old.

One of my biggest fears as an introvert over 50, is that I will be lonely in my new environment, that it will be hard for me to find those I can connect to and do the things that will make that happen. Anything you can say about that would be most appreciated.

I don't have answers but you and I will be going through the same stuff. I'll post about it if you will.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Go, Helen! I aspire to be as brave as you.

[3894]

, CP!

Here's our theme song for this thread ...

http://youtu.be/r_krgBgGlXE

[Strangler Lewis]

Join what you can't beat? Why not? Tweak the spandex a little, and you're a rhinestone cowboy.