Crush on the wrong person?

[Drince88]

Originally Posted by Boingonut

Second problem is that she is not a member of my Church. This does not matter to me one bit, in fact it is one of the resons I am attacted to her I think. But it matters a lot to my friends and family who are members of my Church. I don't want to disapoint my them.

If it doesn't matter to you, it shouldn't matter. YOU are the one dating her, not your family and friends. AND we're talking one date here - NOT a marriage proposal, dating is how you find out if you are compatible. If she is not "the one", dating her will help you figure out some of the things that ARE important to you.