It's not fair

[innerSpaceman]

oh my. I've purposefully stayed away from this thread ... hoping the news might be good when I had the courage to peek again.

I feel sorta guilty myself for not checking in to offer support, but Pru ... you were in far better emotional hands than I could have held out. The experience with my nephew leaves me a basket case about this sort of stuff. But I will take the fine advice I knew you would be given by others, and ditch the guilt.

I hope things continue to bode well for your brother, yourself, and your entire family.

Hugs galore.