Jodie Foster Finally Comes Out!

[€uroMeinke]

Originally Posted by innerSpaceman

Oh, and in my anecdotal world of little experience, most people are either one or they're the other, with as few as 20% being very versatile.

Really? I wouldn't think so - but I'm a straight guy

[JWBear]

Originally Posted by innerSpaceman

Oh, and in my anecdotal world of little experience, most people are either one or they're the other, with as few as 20% being very versatile....

My experience, OTOH, has been that most gay men are versatile at least part of the time. And that exclusive bottoms are more common than exclusive tops.

[SacTown Chronic]

That football analogy was getting me all hot and bothered until i realized GC was really talking about gay sex.



Morrigoon has me thinking about scissors.

[Alex]

Good to know. And once I know who Jodie is I'll officially know too much about him/her/it.

[Gn2Dlnd]

He was the one that hung out with Buffy.

[Morrigoon]

As long as we're asking questions / clarifying misconceptions, I still don't "get" sex between lesbians. I mean, with gay men, tab A goes into slot B or tab B goes into slot A. But girls? I don't get it. Sorry ladies, I don't see the appeal beyond appreciating looking at beautiful women.

iSm: It seems to me that if top vs. bottom is an issue for the community, that some sort of coding would be developed, and if it isn't, maybe it could/should be. Some seemingly unrelated word or phrase one could use in their profile that would indicate either way.

[€uroMeinke]

Originally Posted by Morrigoon

As long as we're asking questions / clarifying misconceptions, I still don't "get" sex between lesbians. I mean, with gay men, tab A goes into slot B or tab B goes into slot A. But girls? I don't get it. Sorry ladies, I don't see the appeal beyond appreciating looking at beautiful women.

My hearsay anecdotal experience is there is a wide variety of possibilities - some use appliances, other's shun then, mutual masturbation is always an option, and cunnilingus being an obvious choice.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Originally Posted by Morrigoon

As long as we're asking questions / clarifying misconceptions, I still don't "get" sex between lesbians. I mean, with gay men, tab A goes into slot B or tab B goes into slot A. But girls? I don't get it. Sorry ladies, I don't see the appeal beyond appreciating looking at beautiful women.

Women have such soft skin...

I think your tab/slot observation is interesting, and somehow links in my head with the generalities that gay men have fag hags but lesbian women don't have male friends, and instead are supposedly man haters. Hmm.

[mousepod]

Originally Posted by Cadaverous Pallor

...gay men have fag hags but lesbian women don't have male friends, and instead are supposedly man haters. Hmm.

I couldn't find anything on the web to back this up, but many years ago I heard of a man who hangs around with lesbians referred to as a "bent gent."

I always thought that was interesting, that even in a society that embraces different sexual preferences, the language still showed a frightening male dominance, men are "gents" and women are "hags". Scary.

[Cadaverous Pallor]

Originally Posted by mousepod

I couldn't find anything on the web to back this up, but many years ago I heard of a man who hangs around with lesbians referred to as a "bent gent."

I've never heard that term before (don't know too many lesbians) but I find it interesting that the term refers to the man, as in "he is a bent gent" as opposed to "she is a hag for fags." Hmm, we need a one syllable term for a lesbian that rhymes with a one syllable term for a man...

Originally Posted by Gn2

I thought it was "lemon drop."

Hmm, never heard that one either...perhaps a bit vague?