Disneyphile's mom - Page 4

Strangler Lewis · 02-19-2008, 06:43 AM

I'm sorry this is happening.

mousepod · 02-19-2008, 07:17 AM

I admire your strength to come here and articulate what's going on. I'm sorry that this process is so ****ed up - but it sounds like your family is strong and you'll be there for each other for a long time.

Snowflake · 02-19-2008, 07:44 AM

DP, my thoughts and good vibes are with you and yours right now. You're being your Mom & Dad's rock right now. I believe that your Mom can feel your vibe and hear you right now, so I believe she is feeling that strength coming from you. You take some deep breaths and tell your Mom everything you want to tell her, she'll hear you and take it with her if she decides it is time to go. {{{hugs}}}

DreadPirateRoberts · 02-19-2008, 08:32 AM

I'm sorry.

wendybeth · 02-19-2008, 09:25 AM

Cancer is horrible, and Adenocarcinoma is one of the nastiest forms of it. (I lost my best friend and another good friend to it, both of them young). I'm so sorry, DP. You are right- your mom can still hear you, although chances are it's mixed up with hallucinations. (When my mom had a very similar experience, at her worst and when we all thought she was dying and couldn't possibly understand us, she did. She later related back to us almost verbatim what we said and who was with us at the time, although she didn't realize she was in a hospital. One time she thought it was a train depot, and another a big party. Still, she did hear and understand us.) I can't think of anything to say that would be of comfort, except that you are truly a wonderful daughter and your dad is lucky to have you through all of this. Big, big hugs.

blueerica · 02-19-2008, 09:20 AM

I'm with Snowflake. Tell her what you need to say. Tell your family members to stop arguing around her like that... she can still hear, even if it's just the negative vibes. They can take it outside.

And while they're out there, tell her how much you love her.

Give her your strength, 'cause DP, you have tons of it. She needs you and she needs love and support, no matter what happens.

{{DP}}

katiesue · 02-19-2008, 10:21 AM

I'm thinking of you and all your family.

~MS~ · 02-19-2008, 10:50 AM

Oh DP I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this and that your dads fears are making this difficult time even more difficult. I agree that she can indeed hear you no matter if it's drug induced or not....having BTDT with the spouse 3 times (in a coma) so far and once with Missy...they can in fact hear us and 'know' we're there even if they can't acknowledge it so share your love and your strength and I have no doubt in your ability to tell the rest of the family take the negative down to the waiting room if they need to but keep it out of her space...and yours for that matter! Hang in there and know a lot of good people are covering you all in prayer and good thoughts ...

Ghoulish Delight · 02-19-2008, 10:58 AM

I'm so sorry T.

Gemini Cricket · 02-19-2008, 11:11 AM

I am so sorry that you are going through this.
The time to be strong is now, DP. It's a very hard time, but you simply must. If you need help and a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. I'm unemployed and can come down if you need.
PM me if you want.

02-19-2008, 06:43 AM	#1
Strangler Lewis Doing The Job Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: In a state Posts: 3,956	I'm sorry this is happening. __________________ Live now-pay later. Diner's Club!
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02-19-2008, 07:17 AM	#2
mousepod You broke your Ramadar! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 4,635	I admire your strength to come here and articulate what's going on. I'm sorry that this process is so ****ed up - but it sounds like your family is strong and you'll be there for each other for a long time. __________________ "Give the public everything you can give them, keep the place as clean as you can keep it, keep it friendly" - Walt Disney
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Snowflake lost in the fog Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: San Francisco Posts: 7,831	DP, my thoughts and good vibes are with you and yours right now. You're being your Mom & Dad's rock right now. I believe that your Mom can feel your vibe and hear you right now, so I believe she is feeling that strength coming from you. You take some deep breaths and tell your Mom everything you want to tell her, she'll hear you and take it with her if she decides it is time to go. {{{hugs}}} __________________ Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde
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02-19-2008, 08:32 AM	#4
DreadPirateRoberts Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 2,483	I'm sorry.
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02-19-2008, 09:25 AM	#5
wendybeth Nevermind Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 7,847	Cancer is horrible, and Adenocarcinoma is one of the nastiest forms of it. (I lost my best friend and another good friend to it, both of them young). I'm so sorry, DP. You are right- your mom can still hear you, although chances are it's mixed up with hallucinations. (When my mom had a very similar experience, at her worst and when we all thought she was dying and couldn't possibly understand us, she did. She later related back to us almost verbatim what we said and who was with us at the time, although she didn't realize she was in a hospital. One time she thought it was a train depot, and another a big party. Still, she did hear and understand us.) I can't think of anything to say that would be of comfort, except that you are truly a wonderful daughter and your dad is lucky to have you through all of this. Big, big hugs. __________________
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02-19-2008, 09:20 AM	#6
blueerica Nueve Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 6,497	I'm with Snowflake. Tell her what you need to say. Tell your family members to stop arguing around her like that... she can still hear, even if it's just the negative vibes. They can take it outside. And while they're out there, tell her how much you love her. Give her your strength, 'cause DP, you have tons of it. She needs you and she needs love and support, no matter what happens. {{DP}} __________________ Tomorrow is the day for you and me
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katiesue Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: San Diego Posts: 4,678	I'm thinking of you and all your family. __________________ My life is so exciting I can hardly stand it.
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02-19-2008, 10:50 AM	#8
~MS~ One Happy little Missy! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 658	Oh DP I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this and that your dads fears are making this difficult time even more difficult. I agree that she can indeed hear you no matter if it's drug induced or not....having BTDT with the spouse 3 times (in a coma) so far and once with Missy...they can in fact hear us and 'know' we're there even if they can't acknowledge it so share your love and your strength and I have no doubt in your ability to tell the rest of the family take the negative down to the waiting room if they need to but keep it out of her space...and yours for that matter! Hang in there and know a lot of good people are covering you all in prayer and good thoughts ... __________________ "Sometimes Miracles Hide"
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02-19-2008, 10:58 AM	#9
Ghoulish Delight I Floop the Pig Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Alternative Swankstyle Posts: 19,348	I'm so sorry T. __________________ 'He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me.' -TJ
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02-19-2008, 11:11 AM	#10
Gemini Cricket ... Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 13,244	I am so sorry that you are going through this. The time to be strong is now, DP. It's a very hard time, but you simply must. If you need help and a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. I'm unemployed and can come down if you need. PM me if you want.
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