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CoasterMatt · 06-24-2011, 01:11 PM

That's actually the name of it, but I'm thankfully NOT a photo-sensitive epileptic.

JWBear · 06-24-2011, 01:42 PM

Our neighbor behind us, Dave (whom we adore) has a thing for lost puppies (of the gay male variety). His newest project is named Kory and is out cleaning up Dave's garden and doing odd jobs around his house. He's very nice on he eyes!

Cadaverous Pallor · 06-24-2011, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by JWBear

Our neighbor behind us, Dave (whom we adore) has a thing for lost puppies (of the gay male variety). His newest project is named Kory and is out cleaning up Dave's garden and doing odd jobs around his house. He's very nice on he eyes!

I *think* I get what you're saying, but this type of thing confuses me.

Here's how I read this:

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Our neighbor behind us, Dave has a thing for lost puppies (of the blonde bombshell variety). His newest project is named Carrie and is out cleaning up Dave's garden and doing odd jobs around his house. She's very nice on the eyes!

I mean, isn't that really demeaning for anyone? Just because it's a male it's ok? I'm kind of horrified when I hear stuff like this.

Alex · 06-24-2011, 02:04 PM

It's a spectrum.

"There's a very attractive person working in the garden next door."

"There's a young very attractive person working in the garden next door."

"There's a young very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door."

"There's a young, very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door and is dating our neighbor."

"There's a young, very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door and is the most recent of a long string of people dating our neighbor."

"There's a young sweet thang working half nekkid in the dirt plot next door, boy do I appreciate the rate at which our neighbor plows through them as it's nice eye candy."

"I was just standing naked at the blinds pulling one off while watching the neighbor's newest barely legal conquest work up a sweat in the garden next door."

Cadaverous Pallor · 06-24-2011, 07:50 PM

Alex is hilarious and also correct. It crosses the line for me.

I'm often surprised at how often I hear this kind of thing among gays..."sugar daddies" and the like. I think it proves that it's not true physical weakness that distinguishes women as subs, but simply a concept of who's on top.

To me, it's still people being treated like inferiors. Perhaps someday we'll hear about the struggle for twink rights.

Gn2Dlnd · 06-25-2011, 12:11 AM

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To me, it's still people being treated like inferiors. Perhaps someday we'll hear about the struggle for twink rights.

Maybe it's an age thing on my part? Maybe it's because you're not gay? I'm not sure. But your perception of this is confusing to me. Twinks are not, in any way, struggling for rights. Nor are they treated as inferiors. People choose roles in relationships, sub and dom are agreed upon, not assumed. In fact, more often than not, the partner in control of a relationship would be described as the "bottom." It's not a power trip thing, although some people get off on that, it's just a persona that helps someone define their place in a relationship. What JWBear is describing sounds to me like the sort of situation I would find myself in when I was younger. Someone wants to help me out financially, or offer me some sort of domestic security, fine. I can be a cute date. I find myself on the other side of the equation now. No surprise. Who doesn't like the satisfaction of helping someone out? And, if they happen to be cute? All the better. I ain't the Red Cross. Granted, I'm not in this situation very often, but, when I am, neither party is laboring under any delusions.

With the broad spectrum of relationships we have here, I'm surprised that anyone on this board would be in any way offended by a good old lusty compliment. If Dave had hired a busty blonde to help around the house (everybody ought to have a maid...), and she was another in a string of lookers, and I happened to like busty blondes, why on earth would it be offensive for me to say so?

I'm all for rescuing puppies that want to be rescued. Problem is, I tend to complicate the situation by rescuing the straight ones. Yes, apparently, that's a thing too. They get some sort of security, I get a cute guy to hang out with, they know they're never going to put out, I know they're never going to dump me. Win-win, right?

Gemini Cricket · 06-30-2011, 02:45 PM

I guess it's been awhile. Ha ha.

cirquelover · 06-24-2011, 02:20 PM

Alex, you slay me!

lashbear · 06-24-2011, 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JWBear

Our neighbor behind us, Dave (whom we adore) has a thing for lost puppies (of the gay male variety). His newest project is named Kory and is out cleaning up Dave's garden and doing odd jobs around his house. He's very nice on he eyes!

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Originally Posted by Alex

"I was just standing naked at the blinds pulling one off while watching the neighbor's newest barely legal conquest work up a sweat in the garden next door."

As I can't stand naked at the blinds due to distance, can I haz a photo?

katiesue · 06-24-2011, 08:10 PM

Greetings from Skagway. Alex is right, all jewlery stores but we had fun kayking just over the Canadian border.

You all need to go book now. Its just amazing. And ISM you will love it. We went to a martini tasting and the bonus drink was a sidecar. Missing you all.

Madz has been sucked in by the teen club and basically shows up to sleep. The verandah room was definately worth it.

Tomorrow is Juneau and our helicopter/glacier excursions. Now back to no cell coverage.

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Alex . Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 13,354	It's a spectrum. "There's a very attractive person working in the garden next door." "There's a young very attractive person working in the garden next door." "There's a young very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door." "There's a young, very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door and is dating our neighbor." "There's a young, very attractive person working in the garden of the person next door and is the most recent of a long string of people dating our neighbor." "There's a young sweet thang working half nekkid in the dirt plot next door, boy do I appreciate the rate at which our neighbor plows through them as it's nice eye candy." "I was just standing naked at the blinds pulling one off while watching the neighbor's newest barely legal conquest work up a sweat in the garden next door."
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Cadaverous Pallor ohhhh baby Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Parental Bliss Posts: 12,364	Alex is hilarious and also correct. It crosses the line for me. I'm often surprised at how often I hear this kind of thing among gays..."sugar daddies" and the like. I think it proves that it's not true physical weakness that distinguishes women as subs, but simply a concept of who's on top. To me, it's still people being treated like inferiors. Perhaps someday we'll hear about the struggle for twink rights. __________________ The second star to the right shines in the night for you
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katiesue Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: San Diego Posts: 4,678	Greetings from Skagway. Alex is right, all jewlery stores but we had fun kayking just over the Canadian border. You all need to go book now. Its just amazing. And ISM you will love it. We went to a martini tasting and the bonus drink was a sidecar. Missing you all. Madz has been sucked in by the teen club and basically shows up to sleep. The verandah room was definately worth it. Tomorrow is Juneau and our helicopter/glacier excursions. Now back to no cell coverage. __________________ My life is so exciting I can hardly stand it.
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